The church leadership is first to equip the Christians to do ministry. The answer is not how to get people to go to church, but how can we can get the church to go outward and be daily witnesses in the world. The church is a place for maturing the people, not for gathering unbelievers to be comfortable with us so that we can all be friends. Some congregations are so large that the leaders don’t know most of them and cannot possibly shepherd them.
If people are coming to church because of the activities offered or the quality of entertainment is equal to that of the world, we have completely missed the “purpose” of the church.
If you are not focusing on mans sin then why does one need a savior? The Bible makes it clear FAITH comes by hearing the word not by seeing. There is not a new “better way” to do or present the gospel. The power of God is learned and believed by the word being proclaimed correctly by those who actually understand and believe it. Not with a watered down, feel good message so folks walk away THINKING they are saved.New believers must learn the essentials of the gospel to understand them and to respond correctly to them. We must to tell them what they NEED to hear, not what they want to hear.
According to the seeker friendly churches, it’s “Shhh… don’t tell them they’re a sinner, they may not like it.” Let’s keep it a secret and we’ll let them know slowly…later on… maybe…if they ask”.
But in the meantime, what happens when they start to fall away? Most churches are too “big” and too “busy” to notice when five or ten people are gone, because five or ten new ones take their place next week. The turnover rate is faster than Wal-Mart! And most go away unsaved. Or worse… PASS AWAY! Then it’s too late. Another soul in hell that thought they were saved and weren't. Because no one told them the truth.
Many mature Christians have reacted to this “seeker-friendly-sensitive” nonsense by leaving the church. They have been turned off by being forced to accept these new methods that are re-structuring the way we do church. They have taken the initiative to no longer attend this type of church. Most of those who leave are not immature Christians, they are the ones who take their faith seriously. They are the ones the church needs most, yet the church is willing to let them leave in favor of getting more “unbelievers” and “seekers” into their midst. In the meantime, the church is running out of money because of the mature Christians that supported the church are leaving.
The “new people” are not supporting the church for a number of reasons. They have no obligation to the people in the church or its leaders, that they don’t even know. They can say “ I go to church”, get entertained, get a “you’re a good person” message, have free refreshments afterwards and all for a couple of dollars. No conviction, no loyalty, no nothing.
Meanwhile the people who used to support the church are leaving in droves! Finding churches that preach the Gospel, feed the soul and are teaching people about salvation.
The church that make it attractive those who are "seekers" has limited its effectiveness. By catering to those who are non-believers or weak Christians, the church has neglected the growth of those who could be productive and they are driving away the very people that make a church healthy and strong.
Those who are spiritually mature have no choice but to leave as they see the churches spiritual standards being lowered by bringing the "world" into the church to attract more people. It doesn’t matter what their belief, just “get ‘em in the door” so we have a full house and it LOOKS good. We’ll tickle their itching ears! Show them a new movie, a couple skits, get 'em wet ( baptize 'em) and then tell them how wonderful they are does not save people.
Often stronger Christians are asked to leave if they are vocal on their disagreement of the direction of the church. Many still have not found churches for a lot of reasons, but they still witness and fellowship with other like-minded believers. Many search for a couple years trying to find a new church. having to bounce from church to church, wary of what they are hearing.
And some do not attend because of the way they were treated at a “seeker friendly” church. The “if you are not happy here, maybe you should find another church” attitude hurt them and they don’t want to get involved again very soon.
So how is all this affecting the churches that have accepted the new system? They have become looser, lenient in scripture and very superficial; the biblical depth to their teaching is short and shallow. They are left practicing a sliver of what church in the first century did.
And they are failing. I don’t think I have to tell you why. It’s obvious